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How to connect with your Power, Courage and Grace

  • Writer: Florere Vita
    Florere Vita
  • Mar 12
  • 2 min read

Women have never had more access to opportunity to power than we do today.

We are feeling the call to step, be more and have greater impact at work, at home and in our communities. 


However, we are reluctant. We have no more bandwidth, time or energy. We are saying no to the very things we want to do


For far too long we have believed that the only way we can be taken seriously and get results in the world is to behave like SuperWoman. Strong, capable, dominating, frantic, inefficient, scary. Her fuel is fear. She generates stress, she won’t let you say no or rest. She will push you into the ground and then she will mock you when you’re down. 


She is the one responsible for our burnout, our disconnection from ourselves and others, our relationship challenges, our lack of joy and fun


So if being SuperWoman is not the answer, what is ?


The answer is something you already have access too, at least a little and it’s likely that you don’t know it. It is called Soft Power. This means operating in a way which is both deeply feminine and very powerful and which works so very well with female biology and our innate talents and strengths. You don’t need fixing you are not broken, you are just powered with the wrong fuel for you


We need this new kind of power to lead well and enjoy the lives we want on our terms.


It’s a power grounded in collaboration not competition.

A power of co-operation not coercion. A power centred in replenishment not depletion. 


So few of us have role models to show us how this works, we don;t have the inspiration and guides that nurture us fully


I believe that real leadership is less about skill and more about having a well of physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual strength to draw on. 


The powerful tools and methodologies I use in my work were created by women for women and will help you fill that well, build up your resources and sustain your resilience. 


If Superwoman, the archetype of our times is not the answer and Soft Power is, how can you recognise this in yourself, how much of it do you have access to right now?


I use five very archetypes, we call them  PowerTypes™. When you have high access to them all they combine to create Soft Power. It’s the right fuel for you. It’s gentle, it’s sustainable, it’s effective and it feels good. 


The PowerTypes™ are


  • The Queen - leadership through vision & inspiration

  • The Warrioress - leadership through cause and participation

  • The Mother - leadership through love and encouragement

  • The Sorceress - leadership through faith and wisdom

  • The Lover - leadership through invitation and appreciation


Stop telling women to learn how to cope. Teach them how to thrive

When women learn to lead with their natural strengths instead of performative masculinity, stress drops and performance rises. That's the difference between coping and thriving


Intrigued? Want to understand more? Drop me a DM or book yourself a call using this link  https://calendly.com/florerevita/enquiry and let’s chat

 
 
 

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